I am Kerby. I am an African American male and I am 43 years old now. Before I came to Community Alternatives, I battled homelessness for fourteen years. I have been in a stable place, at Page Manor, for two years now. I am one year sober, and this is the longest time since forever that I have maintained being sober.
The hardest thing about being homeless was not knowing if I would be a victim of violence, but rather when I was going to be. Several times throughout those fourteen years I came to within an inch of my life. It's pretty sad when you feel safer in an old, half-demolished building on Saint Louis Avenue than you do in a men's shelter.
I have not been victimized once since living in the boarding home. I know that I can get my own place and I am just about ready. All I need to do is get a little more grounded. I have one year clean, the longest ever and I have learned how to budget my money. When I get my own place, I know I will need a lot of help. What helped me the most when I homeless was that the people at Community Alternatives managed to find me wherever I was even when I didn't want to be found. Some of us need that extra encouragement! I know I can depend on them to help me when I'm ready to live on my own.
It has been such a pleasure knowing the people at Community Alternatives. Some days I would be so disgusted and they found me and helped me anyway and I am so appreciative for them. They're like my second family, they know everything about me, even my secrets, and that's a good thing! It's a good thing that I'm comfortable enough to share everything with this second family of mine. I'm rebuilding a whole lot of burnt bridges with my real family and that takes time, but now I have people I know will find me and help me no matter what.
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